Thinking old age, few people think positively. That future is looked upon as a nemesis cloaked in darkness, causing fear, anger and despair.
My mother invariably wished the bureaucrats she came in contact with, a very long life. Not because she valued their contribution to the world, but because she didn’t take to their patronizing attitudes towards the elderly. She felt they richly deserved to suffer at length the retiree travails they seldom empathized with while in service. Obviously, for her too, old age was a condition difficult to come to terms with.
Old age takes its own sweet time to arrive. The individual rates of physical decline are not identical. Partly determined by heredity, partly by the environment and partly by life experiences, it may even vary considerably. The physical change, is perhaps the most shocking and unacceptable for those used to being admired for beauty.
The
older-looking
individuals are envious of peers who appear to have retain the preciousphysical attributes
of youth. Remember the book “The young Diana”? The novel, written by Marie Corelli in 1918, portrays “an experiment of the future” whereby scientific experimentation transforms an intelligent but disfavoured elderly woman into a young and beautiful girl.
Marion Davis played the lead role in the film version. Diana never had a beau in her early years. Subsequent to the age-reversing experiment however, all the men she meets are bedazzled and compete to possess her
ethereal beauty -
including the scientist who ‘created’ her